Having a conflict means to be highly stressed. There will occure a block within the right hemisphere. On the other hand this conflict can only be coped with
by the cooperation of both hemispheres optimally. Naturally stress will be assimilated in a healthy natural sleep during the REM-phase by the
eye-movements. These natural reactions will create new ideas and opportunities for solving problems and for achieving goals in life.
Unfortunately nowadays the stressors have increased so much, that getting over throughout night´s rest is no more fully possible. Plus the REM-phase will
be partly or even fully prevented by a restless night or by sleep-inducing medication. The consequence can be that a person feels permanently under
pressure and relaxation is hardly possible.
The "wingwave" - intervention so to speak pretends to be in
a REM-phase in a waking state. While following with the eyes the coaches hand making waving-movements, a rapid assimilation-process starts up in
such a way that stucked processes will take off in a kind of “turbo” - speed. Possibly the client will run through more or less dramatical, but easy bearable
emotional processes which usually don´t take longer than one minute.
During the intervention it can come to amazing “wise” understanding. The whole process works by itself while the coach keeps an eye on the process and
intervenes only if necessary. During the coaching the effects will be reinforced with the help of NLP-methods - according to individual
needs.
After the intervention the client feels relieved, sometimes even happy and elated. Occasionally he feels pleasantly tired and relaxed, so that the rest of the
day should be spend quietly and without stress.
There are three main emphasis on wingwave:
1. Coaching of "post-achievement-Stress"
This means coaching of any kind of stress-problems which typically occure in high-qualitiy and labour-intensiv occupations. We call it
"post-achievement-stress", if it does not reduce regularly by itself.
For example “hard knocks”, private and professional disappointments, sudden incidents like bad letters or phonecalls or
accidents.
2. Ressource-Coaching
In this case the interventions are used for achievement-topics such as increase of creativity, positive self-motivation, self-image-coaching or
goal-visualisation as a mental preparation for performances such as tests, examinations or offical
entrances.
3. Belief-Coaching
This type of coaching is used to overcome restrictive beliefs and beliefs which reduce quality of life. The aim ist to change them into ressource-beliefs. For
example the belief “ I am not worthy”. It is also important to find so called “euphoric-traps” within a belief-system. Their demanding can be unrealistic and
willy-nilly leads to faillure. (f.e. “I succeed in everything”) Consequently the inner world and the selfconfidence becomes distressable. The aim of these
interventions is the emotional anchoring of self-strengthening and performance-promoting
beliefs.
Superiority of wingwave over other methods
Through wingwave the creative part of the subconscious will be reached directly and is much more included as it is possible with most of the other
coaching-methods. Namely while the client keeps awake and able to act. Tools usually used under command of the coach the client uses automatically by
himself even without to be denoted, in his own personal way. In addition the client is not forced to speak about his problems in detail. There is no necessity
of a “soul-striptease”.
By means of the muscle-test the signals of the subconscious are given via the autonomous nervous system. They help to determine the right time for
intervention, the optimal formulation of the problem and at the end of the processing an information about the efficiency of the intervention. Possibly
already within one Coaching-session amazing changes could happen. Although usually for one particular theme a sequence of fife to ten sessions
should be expected.
All interventions take place in greatest possible transparency for the client who can realize immediatly while the intervention if he comes closer to his goal,
or not. Before the intervention starts method and mode of action will be explained in detail. The client has to be prepared in the best way, so that he will
understand the amazing rapid course of inner pictures, emotions, thoughts and feelings. The experience shows that the problem is assimilated after the
intervention and there are no relapses nor postponements.
For whom wingwave is not suitable
Wingwave is not a psychotherapy and cannot replace it. Precondition for the client is a normal physical and psychological capacity.
This method is suitable for people who want high performances, sportsmen and manager as much as for everybody else, no matter if child, grown up or the
older people. Nowadays the daily flood of stress, defeats, disappointments or small or big shocks increased so much, that even the average citizen does
not find the leisure to get clear and to assimilate stress and to develope new life-strategies. In addition negative experiences from the past created
restrictive beliefs which cause narrow or distorted point of views about oneself and the individual
life-concept.
With wingwave amazing success could be achieved. Many people could be led to more selfconfidence, goal-motivation, love of life, ability of communicating und inner freedom.
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Dipl.rer.pol Helga Blume-Matzke NLP-Master and authorized wingwave-Coach
